20th February

On Tuesday we had our materials workshop. The point of the workshop was to experiment with materials we wouldn’t usually use and see how they inspired us in our projects. I’ll admit I didn’t really connect mine with my project at all, but I still enjoyed getting to mess around with some crafting stuff.

My first impulse was to do something with collage – I even brought in some old magazines to collage with – but I feel like I’ve already done collage a fair bit, and I wanted to try something completely different. I feel like for my work I usually default to just drawing, so I wanted to do something more physical and three dimensional. I ended up being reminded of how on my art foundation I used to do a lot of sewing into photos and sewing things together, so I decided to try doing that – I ended up sewing a bunch of random objects and photos together into some kind of bizarre creature/mobile/family tree. I did also eventually get physically tired of sewing things together (it turns out that using a sewing needle to punch a hole in things that aren’t meant to be sewed is a bit rough on the old hands) and ended up doing some left-handed drawings as well.

Look at my beautiful creations everybody!!!!

It was a really interesting experience – like I said, my hands got really tired towards the end, so there was a physicality to it that I’m not used to from my usual digital work. Using the sewing needle and thread was really fiddly, especially because I wasn’t used to it. It was honestly a pretty frustrating experience at times. Despite that, I did still genuinely enjoy it. There was just something really satisfying about it – maybe it was the experience of getting to construct something, maybe it was the sensation of punching holes in things (I found sewing into the plastic straws particularly satisfying), maybe it was just the fact that I got to create something without worrying about having a point to it or making it look good. Well, ok, that’s not entirely true. By the end the workshop was setting off whatever fun little complex I have about not being good enough at creating things compared to everyone else. But it’s fine or whatever. That’s between me and my counsellor.

Positive experience overall, even if I did have to go take a little stress walk immediately after!

I did also want to mention my thoughts on the Eva Hesse documentary we watched - it was really interesting to learn about Hesse, but the thing that really stuck out to me about the documentary was the gender dynamics. Obviously Eva was in a very unique position as a woman working in an art world was mostly men. But I also found it notable how the male artists interviewed in the documentary talked about her - they all seemed incapable of praising her without mentioning how beautiful she was or how they were in love with her. It felt very much like these guys didn't know how to process having respect for a woman without making it about them wanting to get with her. Raises some interesting questions about how women, even well-respected and admired women, are treated and how they are sexualised, I think!

Shows of the week

I finished my watch of BoJack Horseman early this week - not much to add since Todd's asexuality kind of takes a back seat in season 6. There's at least one major development in season 6's introduction of yet another ace character: Maude, who ends up dating Todd and their relationship lasts until the end of the show. I don't have much to say about her - she's a very similar character to Todd but a little less over-the-top wacky, and serves as a good contrast to Yolanda. By the end of the show, Todd has finally managed to date someone who he has more in common with than just being asexual, which feels like a natural conclusion to the story. Also, Maude is notably voiced by an asexual actor: Echo Gillette.

I also watched the teen drama Heartbreak High this week, and was pleasantly surprised by it! As I think I've made very clear, I wasn't impressed by either Sex Education or Heartstopper in how they portrayed asexuality and (in Heartstopper's case) aromanticism, so I was feeling pretty sceptical about yet another Netflix teen drama. But for whatever reason, Heartbreak High managed to break the cycle! Would I call it a particularly good show? Probably not, it's very much a trashy teen drama, but my god was it compelling. I feel like I just experienced the most unhinged 400 minutes of TV I've ever seen in my life. It's the first compelling argument I've ever witnessed for the concept of 8-episode seasons. Every episode they put like five of the most insane friendship breakups and regular breakups on my screen at a rate previously unknown to science. I felt hysterical.

Anyway, off topic. The asexuality stuff specifically. I just think it's so great that they made their ace character the Australian (it's an Australian show) equivalent of a roadman who steals cars at house parties and sells drugs and whose real name is Dougie but who calls himself Ca$h with a dollar sign instead of an S hangs out with misogynist creeps who he has to learn to stand up to. Finally representation for asexual dirtbag teenagers. And I know it might sound like I'm being facetious here but genuinely I thought it was great. Ca$h was so the complete opposite of what I expected and it was wonderful.

I think his arc of struggling with his sexuality was also very well-done! They haven't actually used the term 'asexual' in the show (gonna have to keep an eye out for the second season in April) but it is pretty clearly signified, and the reporting around the show seems to concur that this is an asexual character. I thought that his attempts to make a relationship work with Darren (not asexual) was a pretty compelling story - it certainly got cheesy in places but again! Cheesy slightly trashy teen show! This is what I'm here for! And I for one think we should have ace characters in fun trash too!

Actually this is a thought I'm having as I write this, but maybe the thing I'm looking for in depictions of asexual and aromantic characters is for them to be treated the same as the rest of the characters in the show, and to fit in with the show's tone. BoJack Horseman is an absurd surreal comedy, so I like that Todd's asexuality is used as a source of absurd surreal humour. Heartbreak High is an ultra-dramatic over-the-top teen show, so I like that Ca$h's asexuality and relationships are a source of over-the-top drama. Compare to something like Sex Education, where the ace characters seem to be either there solely to educate the audience about asexuality or have the most interesting part of their personal struggles relegated to flashbacks while the other characters get to have their personal struggles in focus.

Heartbreak High transcripts here!

Just something to think about!

Reading of the Week!

Notes from The History of Sexuality: Volume 1 by Michel Foucault, or as I've been calling it, The Original You're Wrong About

Notes from my bestie Lizzy B:

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