31st October

Happy Halloween everyone my brain is having a Bad Fucking Time.

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3rd November

We're so back! (mostly) A lot has happened this week outside of the tutorial and the event that will henceforth be known as The Incident, so let's break this down into sections shall we

Part 1: Beginning the actual aspec depictions research in serious AKA indulging my true passion in life

Oh what's that? You all assumed I chose to research this subject because I care about depictions of asexuality and aromanticism? Haha! I tricked you all! I actually decided to research this as a way to indulge my true greatest passion: late 90s - early 2010s TV of extremely dubious quality!

So anyway this week I watched a bunch of episodes of the 2014 sitcom Sirens that deal with asexuality. Transcripts here!

As far as I can tell, Sirens, a sitcom about paramedics and EMTs in Chicago, was actually one of the first American TV shows ever to deal with asexuality, only preceded by the 2010 comedy Huge, which I am currently engaged in a fucking battle for my life trying to find anywhere to watch it. But that's another story.

Anyway, Sirens introduces asexuality through the asexual character Voodoo, and in particular an ongoing storyline about her relationship with main character Brian, who is not asexual, and how they try to make their relationship work. In terms of how this asexual character is written, it's..... well they tried. In the show's defence it seems genuinely well-intentioned - there was a clear effort being made to educate the audience about a sexual orientation that most people in 2014 probably wouldn't know anything about, and in some ways I was actually pleasantly surprised by the amount of research that was seemingly done and the nuanced understanding of asexuality. They reference the existence of things like asexual message boards and the grey triangle being used as a symbol for asexuality (which has fallen out of popularity in the last decade at least as far as I'm aware but whatever. 2014.), and they acknowledge nuances of asexuality like the fact that some ace people might masturbate even if they have no interest in partnered sex. Considering how little-known asexuality was in 2014, I must say that it did manage to exceed my (low) expectations at times.

HOWEVER. The problems. The main issue I have with the depiction of asexuality here really comes down to this fact that Brian is one of the show's three leads and Voodoo is more of a side character, so this storyline is mostly about him. The Finger, the episode that establishes Voodoo as asexual, is pretty much a basic "Will the boy get the girl?" story, with the added complication that the girl in question is asexual! Now, that's all well and good, but it does mean that it risks reducing asexuality to an obstacle to a relationship, and worse in my mind is the fact that Voodoo doesn't get to express her feelings on the situation an awful lot, and we get more scenes of the three leading men talking about her. These scenes, pretty much uniformly, are quite bad. Firstly, they seem to treat asexuality as a punchline a lot of the time, with a lot of jokes about how weird Voodoo is because she's asexual (MORE ON THAT LATER). Also just generally I can't help but feel like there's a very uncomfortable vibe to a scene where a bunch of men sit around talking about how weird and inhuman this woman is because she won't have sex with one of them, and implying that he's better off without her. Like that feels weird right? I can't be the only one that feels weird to.

When we look at the picture the show paints of asexuality, it's not a highly complimentary one. Especially in The Finger, there are a lot of jokes from Brian's friends and fellow leads Johnny and Hank about how it's "strange", "boring", a "pathology", and Voodoo's asexuality is explicitly linked to her "dark" and overall odd personality. Perhaps the furthest the show goes is when Johnny calls Voodoo "not like other humans" which shortly afterwards gets linked back to her sexuality. "Now Isabel," you might say, "perhaps you're being ungenerous? Perhaps this is merely meant to show how uninformed and sex-obsessed Johnny and Hank are? Perhaps they are the butt of the joke, not Voodoo?" To which I would respond.... maybe? Kinda? It's hard to tell. There's definitely some scenes where the jokes seems to be on Hank and (especially) Johnny for being too sex-obsessed, such as the scene where they and Brian ponder what they'd spend their time doing and thinking about if they never had sex like Voodoo, and while Brian comes up with a long list of things Johnny is genuinely unable to answer. However, most of the time I would say that at best it's not clear whether the joke is on Voodoo or on the guys. Furthermore, the show ends up portraying asexuality as a problem in relationships, as Voodoo and Brian's differences lead to them breaking up. After they break up, Voodoo begins dating a fellow asexual, while Brian starts a romance with a fellow non-asexual. While they try to make their relationship work, the show seems to come down on the side that this sexual difference is insurmountable, which I would consider a very overly simplistic view of things.

The last issue I would like to bring up is that the show seems confused on the distinction between asexuality and aromanticism. Unlike the episode of Sex Education I watched, which at least addresses aromanticism as a possibility, Sirens seems to take it as a given that although Voodoo is asexual she is still interested in dating. However, certain episodes do also seem to imply that her and Brian's relationship is more of a friendship, calling it "platonic". This suggests to me that the writers didn't fully understand the distinction between sexual and romantic attraction, and it perhaps would have benefitted from talking more with ace people.

Anyway all my complaints aside, the joke where Brian is trying to impress Voodoo by researching asexuality and comes up to her and randomly starts saying basic factual information out of nowhere ("Did you know that the symbol of asexuality is the grey triangle?") while Voodoo just looks at him judgementally was quite incredible. I wish it was in a better show.

Oh yeah also I got jumpscared by pre Stranger Things Joe Keery playing a random background character in one episode. That was weird.

On a related note I have decided to start keeping a tally of what shows people bring up unprovoked when I explain my research project to them. This is primarily because I think it's funny, but also I guess this also technically counts as research into which shows have the most cultural impact. The tally currently looks like this:

Part 2: Reading of the week!

This week I continued reading Refusing Compulsory Sexuality, and also read all the relevant essays in Visual and Other Pleasures (plus some that weren't relevant but that intrigued me. I'm a simple guy you reference Oedipus or really any Greek myth and I'll come running

Highlights from the Mulvey essays:

Highlights from Refusing Compulsory Sexuality (so far):

Possible further reading:

Part 3: Fun with Methodology!

Content analysis is a type of analysis that was mentioned a lot in Media/Society by Croteau and Hoynes and Media and Society by Curran and Hesmondhalgh, particularly in reference to feminist criticism of female stereotypes. This got me thinking that it could be a useful method for analysing depictions of asexuality and aromanticism, so this week I started looking into what it actually is and how to do it. They say the basics are a good place to start, so I'm starting with Research Methods: The Basics by Nicholas Walliman!

Part 4: Isabel's Fun Week of Theatre

Saw three plays in three days this week!! Dear god. Never thought I'd say this lads but I'm feeling a bit theatre-d out. Anyway, by some fun coincidence pretty much all the plays in question were vaguely relevant in some way to everything I've been reading about!

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